Ok, I'll be as brief as I can...
Mindee aged 8, started with me mid-September. Mum is a nurse, working shifts approx 13 shifts per month, including weekends. Mindee goes to Dads every other weekend. I have mindee from 6.30am until 8.00pm (term-time only) sometimes 2 days, sometimes three days a week, so as you can imagine when mindee does the proper hours, it's a good income. This mindee was also the first one I signed up since becoming registered, so I had a really good feeling about this one.
A while ago, I posted on here with concerns that mum was not responding to requests to provide her shift hours for the month of October. Since mindee started coming to me, over the period September - October out of a possible ten sessions, xxx has only attended 6½ sessions (because of various illnesses). On the 7th October, mum asked to speak to me when she collected to say she was finding things hard going at work, not enjoying it and had been to the doctors who had put her on anti-d's. She basically dreads going into work (who wouldn't, she works in A&E).
Then I had all the shananigans over half-term, wondering when she was planning to get in touch to give me this months shifts. I finally managed to track her down and she dropped off a list consisting of four days, two this week (tuesday and today) and two next week. I merely thought that given what had happened, she was maybe beginning to ease herself back into work.
I see her everyday at school, enquire how she is feeling, yes xxx was starting back on tuesday at 6.30am....Tuesday came, I got up at 6am, nothing, not a phone call or a text to say she wasn't bringing him and the same today. The thing is, she has paid me for these four days. I don't know quite what to do, because she paid me in cash almost by return of me giving her the invoice. If she was witholding payment, then I could hold that over her head, but there's nothing I can do. I could nobble my husband when he jokes, it's easy money (she pays me in the region of £35 a day because of the times xxx attends) , but even he is now wondering why she pays and then doesn't use me. I don't see it like this all, it's actually very awkward, but with my business head on...if she pays and chooses not to send, then she doesn't get a refund and the session most definitely is not transferable).
I am considering not asking for Decembers hours and then see if she comes back to me, or do you think she might use this as an excuse to walk out on me?
Has anyone any advice as to what to do, or has anyone ever had a similar situation.
Thanks as ever
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