im having problems with a child/parent i mind.
i make a nice lunch for the kids including fruit, berries, salad, veg, sandwiches, buffet style finger foods, yogurts etc, i charge £1.20 (also includes all day drinks & snacks)......it certainly costs me more to do a lunch but any higher & parents wouldnt pay.
Dad of 3 yr old boy has said he cant afford the extra £1.20 (3 days a week) and has started sending LO with a 'packed lunch' (and i use the term lightly) every day for the past 2 weeks he has had 2 squares of bread & butter ....nothing else!
LO has been trying to pinch food of my DS plate which is a big fat no-no....nobody gets in the way of my daughters food & lives lol.....he cries everytime he doesnt get the same lunch as DS, iv felt sorry for him & gave him a smaller portion the past few days but i cant afford to keep doing this (we use a lot of tropical fruits, berries, dips etc which are not cheap)
iv said to dad its not enough, especially now hes started school in the mornings & is physically burnt out by lunchtime......so now hes started putting in ham (the wafer thin sort....more protein in a beer mat! ) again i said he needs a more balanced lunch... but he says thats all he gets at home but with sweets throughout the day (which they dont get here unless its friday & im in a good mood )
I dont think its fair that i charge the other mums for lunch & he thinks he can get it free (he knows im topping it up cus LO is telling him)
shall i carry on feeling guilty & giving him just his sandwiches, it breaks my heart.
BTW im not willing to change my lunches to fit in with LO, i have been feeding my own kids lunches like this for the past 13 years & even take them to school every day
Advice pleeeeeeease
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