My mindee is 2 years old in a couple of weeks.
Last week and today she has been whinging like its going out of fashion!!! At first, its just a pathetic little noise but then she gets louder and louder so EVERYONE knows (very embarrassing in soft play this morning! )
Mum had said a couple of months ago that she was making this silly noise to get attention and her own way. But tbh she didnt do it that much at mine. But now she is.
I am thinking of having another word with Mum tonight to see if anything has changed at home (mum and dad not together but see a lot of each other for LO), if she is having busy weekends/late bedtimes etc.
I tried just ignoring her this morning (at soft play) but then she gets louder, people look in my direction or go up to her and then look around and say Who are you with? She stops the INSTANT someone gives her attention!!
Then I just said to her firmly Now stop. Generally she does but someone she just saunters off and starts again.
She also fussed when we were at home too - when the baby came near her, when she dropped something.
We do plenty of activities, go plenty of places so she is far from lacking in things to do and attention. The baby (well 1 next mth) started a few weeks ago but he has settled right down, so its not like all my attention is on the baby and not her.
So, do I ignore her - despite how loud she gets and despite what others might think? Or do I tell her to stop making silly noises - but then I feel she is getting my attention and so has what she wants. Its very draining - she comes 4 days a week for 10 hours!
PS - She also stops if she gets offered food She loves her food - she is not over weight but just loves "Yummies", loves to be eating! But I am not going to offer her food every time she whinges as I am not getting into that habit with her.
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