Next door neighbour's little boy is coming again tomorrow. He is 4 and I take him to school. He started last week and on Friday, his second day with me, he was so tearful that mum actually came into the house to help settle him. He kept saying he wanted her to take him to school and getting quite upset about it. She started the bribes then! Saying if he was good she would get him a new dvd......she sat him down and we made small talk while he settled and he started playing on our spare ds and my son played on his. Mum pretends she is just going back hometo get his ds, but is actually sneaking off!
When it was time to go, he did ask where mum was and even went to his door to see if she would answer! Luckily, when I told him she had gone to work, he seemed to accept it and got in the car.
I am really stressing now about tomorrow morning! I don't want mum coming in every morning to settle him in and then sneaking off! But as he's new, I'm also worried about how he will react if she just leaves him at the door and how to deal with it.
On Friday I tried to tempt him in by showing him his new peg with Ben 10 on it which he has asked for and his face lit up, but as soon as mum opened her mouth to say how nice it was, he started bawling again!!!
Any suggestions as to what I can do to just get him in here? Last two times he has been fine once mum has gone.
should I let her sneak off (even though I really don't agree with that tactic) until he starts WANTING to come here, which he will cos it's so much fun here and they all love it! Once he's got to the top of his chart and won a prize, he will be running here lol
But in the meantime?
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