Re: Chronic sorrow
Originally Posted by
nannymcflea
Been on a course all day regarding the title.
It was about helping those parents with children with a long term disability/illness.
Lots of discussion about allowing parents time to talk, not being judgemental,supporting the parents through ups and downs,taking the thoughts away from acceptance of the disability and channelling it into adapting your life/ways of doing things and remembering that this will be for a life time for the parents.
It was very informative and well worth the time if you are dealing with parents of children with a long term disability,illness.
If anyone is in this situation and needs the print outs we got I should be able to scan and email them.
gosh....thats me...i have described my feelings as constant grieving. I grieve for the child i thought i would have. for the fact i will never be able to "retire". the fact that grandchildren will be a distant dream and if a reality will be more for me to worry about.
I dont think about it all the time....i did when katie was tiny...when everything was falling about round my ears but now we just get on with it...its part of my life...i dont really know any different.
This september has been difficult...her peers are off to uni whilst she is just happy with her xbox and the exercise books to write down her list upon list of football players.
Chronic sorrow......it is also chronic joy too!!!
you course sounds wonderful....to have someone who can empathise with parents is a treasure
mandy xx
The bats have left the bell tower.....
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