I have an almost 12 yr old daughter. A while ago I found some manky butter and sugar mix festering in her cupboard in her room. She swore blind she wasnt eating it but I think otherwise. We had a chat about it and I told her if she is hungry or craving sweet stuff she needs to talk to me. I suspected it was timed with my PMT as I know her hormones are synced with my cycle and I thought is was sugar cravings.
Anyway, she assured me that it wouldnt happen again and she would ask before going to the cupboards again.
This week she is away at scout camp. I have house viewers coming tomorrow so went to check her room was tidy. When I stripped the bed under the mattress I found a coke can and an empty packet of chocolate cooking drops that I know I only bought the week before. I looked under her cabin bed and found several crisp packets, ice lolly wrappers and sweet wrappers. She knows she is banned from having food in her room and I only tidied it thoroughly a few weeks ago so I know these are fresh.
I dont give my kids sweets willy nilly, but the fruit bowl is always available and if they dont fancy fruit they can have a sandwich if they are hungry.
I am tempted to just stop buying the treaty stuff but thats not fair on either of the kids and may make it worse.
I knoow all kids go through a sneaky phase, but I really dont like food snaffling.
Can anyone advise as to what to do for the best? Shes at such a hormonal stage of life that I dont want to make life difficult for her, but I cant have her raiding the goodies constantly.
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