Im not sure if this is actually related to childminding...but here goes.
Tonight my DD has not gone to bed as usual. As I was putting her to bed she has had a massive screaming hissy fit. To which i replied I will not speak to her when she is doing that and closed the door.
She continued to scream / shout for sometime 'I want my blanket straight/want my doll/want a cuddle/drink etc etc' I went in again , and told her that you do not speak to people like that, shouting does not get you your own way... when your calm.... etc etc'. This carried on for over an hour before she finally 'gave in' and went to sleep. I went in several times.
Part of me just wanted to give her a cuddle as I was really upset too, but thought that would defeat the object. I didnt want her thinking she could scream and shout at people like that and everything would be ok.
To say this has upset me is an understatement. Im sat in floods of tears.She normally goes to bed fine, and although can have her 'moments' I've never seen such behaviour from her before. Im dreading tomorrow, as I know im gonna have to talk about this and possibly give her some sort of sanction (as i really dont want her to think this behaviour is ok!)
Can anyone suggest where I go from here??
Ive been minding since sept... just one baby mindee, along with her baby sister and all has been fine. New boy just started - just a morning school run - a boy who she already knows. They have seemed to get on great and have played together well. Not sure if this has upset her without me even realising??
To make matters worse I usually have to wake her in a morning... now she has been 90 mins late sleeping - she is gonna be a real grump in the morning.
Sorry thats so long. I needed to get it off my chest X
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