:(

[LOOPYLISA]

My uncle has been poorly for a while now, the horrid c

In the last couple of days hes really deteriorated to the point the docs have mentioned a hospice

Its my mums surprise party fri and alot of the family are now not coming obviously can understand, my mum won't even go anywhere as shes upset and also still not 100% herself and awaiting test results

AAAAAAARRRRHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

Just hope if the party is cancelled we can eat all the food thats being delivered tomorrow

Never rains but it pours

[Ripeberry]

So sorry to hear about this sad news. Always seems worse at this time of year . Sounds like she has a supportive familly that will help when needed.

[sarah707]

Sending hugs xx

[Trouble]

big hugs xxxxxxx

[Pipsqueak]

I think sad news is magnified at festive periods and I am sorry to hear your news Lisa. I hope your Uncle can be made comfortable and you and yours are ok.

Sending you a hug ((()))

With respect to the food - can you freeze as much as possible or distribute to neighbours?

[flora]

Oh thats so sad

[nell57]

Dont know what to say to make it better for you. Sending you hugs

[LOOPYLISA]

I think sad news is magnified at festive periods and I am sorry to hear your news Lisa. I hope your Uncle can be made comfortable and you and yours are ok.

Sending you a hug ((()))

With respect to the food - can you freeze as much as possible or distribute to neighbours?

Just hoping it doesnt come to that, but thankyou, great idea x

[sue m]

Sending hugs too hun, hope things work out so you can go ahead with the party. xx

[LittleMissSparkles]

oh hunnie sending you my love and a big hug xxxx

[TheBTeam]

Sending you a big hug, hope all works out with the party.

[angeldelight]

Oh Lisa what a shame I am so sorry to hear that

Hope you are ok

Sending you big hugs

Angel xxx

[LOOPYLISA]

Thanks everyone

Well looks like we have a plan to get my mum out, my bro has said he is taking her out for a meal, so fingers crossed

[angeldelight]

Thanks everyone

Well looks like we have a plan to get my mum out, my bro has said he is taking her out for a meal, so fingers crossed

Hope it works its never easy when you have things on your mind but it will do everyone good and I bet its what your uncle would want everyone to do - enjoy the party ?

Angel xx

[LOOPYLISA]

Hope it works its never easy when you have things on your mind but it will do everyone good and I bet its what your uncle would want everyone to do - enjoy the party ?

Angel xx

He would im sure, have spoken to some members of the family and they are still coming so thats good, what a palarva

[ORKSIE]

Only Just seen this....Hope all goes to plan...Your uncle would want your mum happy Im sure. XXXX

[Monkey1]

Sending hugs Lisa x

[LOOPYLISA]

Morning everyone,

Had a call from my mum early this morning , my uncle passed away last night

As she said hes out of pain now,

Thanks for all your messages x

[Zoemum2four]

Sorry to hear ur sad news, sending hugs XX

[jumpinjen]

That is so sad.... just a thought, but hospitals and hospices are usually very understanding when this situationa rises and someone has become so desperatley ill..... If you ask, they may let you bring the party to your uncle, using a day room or something for a short time.... he might appreciate the gathering, and often there is lots of laughter remembering the good times even when people are so sad, it would be such a shame for family to miss out on getting together!

Hugs, Jenni