Oh my word Floradora, that would be my living nightmare too. I wore glasses from the ages of 3-13 and I had the same style for the whole time. I HATED wearing glasses and thought that changing the style would draw even more attention to me/them. Nowadays I don't think wearing glasses is an issue for kids. I HATE shopping for sunglasses too - too many styles. I did get some really big frames with dark lenses - they feel great but I honestly look like an insect. I find it an impossible task.

Good luck!