Originally Posted by
sarah707
I used to try very hard never to impose sanctions that made my life more difficult
So I'd have withdrawn something else but let him go on the sleepover because that was a break for me
Hugs xx
me too i would have warned him, stopped some TV time or something similar. I don't think stopping the sleepover is too harsh just counterproductive for you. Spitting is horrible and some sanctions are necessary. However, I agree he might be demonstrating his resentment about the early nights and that it might be nice to let him stay up a little later than his sister to show you trust and treat him as an older/big brother.
Could he go a little later than his sister??
if you do what you've always done, you'll get what you've always got
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