Ive been looking after Mindee (aged 9) for about 8 months now and originally all was going well. However of late the following has been happening and its really starting to pee me off
1) Lack of manners - such as burping and farting at the table and trying to get the younger ones to copy
2) Not listening when been spoken to - such as being pulled up about behaviour to which mindee rolls eyes and walks off! Have been firmer on this one
3) Messes around lots at the table (and eats like an animal to be fair) - dont get me wrong I dont mind chatting at the table but when it disrupts the whole dinner time routine - then sorry it is too much
4) Brings own drinks that have the take off lids- like fruit shoots. Anyhow I keep finding thse lids just dumped all over my house and on my front doorstep- I do have bins! Not only do I not want to be picking up after a 9yr old who knows better I have younger mindees for which this is a choking hazard
5) We have a rule of no running in the house as its small and others will get hurt - this gets ignored on a daily basis and again encourages others to copy
6) To top it all off, ive just opened the lego drawer (as I found some mindee had left out despite being asked to put away) and low and behind is mindees empty drink bottle in there!!!!Again I have bins and mindee has been asked more than once to put them into the bin
Ive already given notice to family (17 weeks notice) as I am moving but im starting to not enjoy having this child in my house.
Any suggestions - I personally feel at 9 they know better!
BuggsieMoo x
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