How do you cope with the 'Santa' thing?
This is a huge problem for me this year. My own daughters are 6 & 3.
Around 4 weeks ago an 8 yr old mindee told my 6yr old that santa does not exist. I've had up to 9 kids sitting around the dining table from 5 different familes in the meantime all discussing how santa does his thing - all different 'things' santa doesn't appear to work in the same way. I'm beginning to think that I have missed a trick that I should have a question on their all about me on what do they communicate to their chilren about santa.
I had a call from a parent saying my daughter is now using her new found knowledge at school and telling her school friends that he doesn't exist and to be honest I don't blame her - I mean if she wasn't told then because everyone tells it differently she was bound to start questioning the validity of the story.
So how do you deal with it? how do you balance the whole we don't talk to strangers, we don't take gifts from strangers, we lock our doors at night to stop intruders - and then we make an exception for this jolly little fellow one night of the year? how do children determine which is the good santa amonst all the folk dressed up as santa that they might see leading up to xmas. How do you explain seeing santa in B&Q grotto?
I'm really interested on how you all manage this - one parent suggested I was deliberately evasive, another encourages the full blown lie and I struggle with the idea of lying and getting tied up in which lie I used etc.
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