Maybe mum needs to be shown how to tell him.
It can be so daunting in this day and age because you are dammed if you do and dammed if you don't. Tell your child off your a bad parent, if you don't tell them off your a bad parent.
Some people are terrified of confrontation. My friend walks down the street with her head down and when i asked why she said its because shes not as confident as me and she doesn't want people to talk to her because she feels uncomfortable talking back. Maybe mum is the same? Its hard to go to a new group, everyone is in their own groups, no one makes an effort to talk to you so you feel uncomfortable, your weary of everything you do, worried you'll be judged. Your unsure wether to step in or to let it pass. Not everyone is some super confident person who knows exactually what they are doing with children.
Maybe shes a single parent with lots going on?
Maybe hes and only child and like that at home and toddlers is mums only down time?
Maybe little one has a unknown disability?
Maybe just maybe mum is not maternal and is struggling or has post natal depression or something.
So many factors can come into play and sometimes a lot of the above can be helped by someone taking a few mins to talk to mum or to step in when needed.
Maybe if someone would have said to the little boy 'no thank you, you need to wait. come and sit down and it will be your turn next.' He would have sat down and waited?? But no one tried.
You can’t have everything. Where would you put it?
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