firstly I would tell her hitting anyone is totally unacceptable (sure you have already though). Likewise kicking and banging your doors when in time out. Sounds like she is struggling with the boundaries a bit.
Then I would call a meeting with parent(s) and tell them that it is unacceptable that she does this to any child, or you, in the setting. Tell them you need to tell her that together.
The fact that she's gone from just smirking to hitting means she realises that you mean business and she's upping the protest to the boundaries she's not had before. I would tell parents they need to back you up becuase if it continues you may have to reconsider your ability to care for her.
Explain to them what your boundaries are and how you deal with children when they cross them (sounds like they have very different ideas). I agree that scooter is banned from school runs until behaviour improves and she is able to listen better as road safety is key.
Good luck honx
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