Originally Posted by
rosebud
How about this?
Do absolutely everything you can to help the child settle, put yourself in their shoes, how do they feel about mum leaving them everyday? what can you do to make them feel happy and secure? what do they like to do / play with? What does mum think will help them settle? do they have a comfort object that will help? Put your heart and soul into doing everything you can to help them settle but set a deadline. Say in a month or 3 months or whatever works for you if there is been no change and you feel that you have really done everything you can then you call it a day and give notice.
That way there is light at the end of the tunnel - either things WILL get better or you WILL give notice.
Don't know if that helps at all - but keep your chin up.
great advice, exactly what I'd have said. hugs honey x
if you do what you've always done, you'll get what you've always got
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