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    sometimes I feel a bit guilty, as some of the posts I read at times are very sad. However, by the time I've got there, they've received loads and loads of responses, so I don't reply. To all those people, please don't think it's because I don't care...

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    I think we all understand how you feel Helen.

    It would be impossible to answer every thread and like you say, sometimes it's been said already.

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    Helen ....... i feel just the same as you , sometimes there are so many replies and most of them have already said what i would have done , then i don't know what else to say apart from i'm so sorry etc. then that dosen't feel enough .

    But i do care and wish all the people well , just don't know how to sometimes .
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    me too and sometimes I fidn them just so sad I have to go away and have a think first

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    I feel awful about not sending cards and money towards flowers etc, but to be totally honest and it sounds terrible i forget

    This forum is lovely and i always feel i can come here and unload , even though i am no longer a cm

    Thanks everyone x

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    I know what you mean, also feel awful if I miss someones birthday. I don't have loads of 'real' friends/family so virtual birthday greetings mean so much to me but we can't all answer every post

    I love you all!
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    Quote Originally Posted by PixiePetal View Post
    I know what you mean, also feel awful if I miss someones birthday. I don't have loads of 'real' friends/family so virtual birthday greetings mean so much to me but we can't all answer every post

    I love you all!
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    I feel the same too.
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    same here


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    Me too. xx
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    same here ..... but i do care
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    Me too!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Also not very good at knowing what to say (the right words) , so easier to say nothing as I am always worried I will say the wrong thing

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    I know exactly what you mean Helen - it's impossible to keep up all the time.

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    Keep smiling!

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    Quote Originally Posted by CAROLYN View Post
    Me too!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Also not very good at knowing what to say (the right words) , so easier to say nothing as I am always worried I will say the wrong thing
    This is how I feel too Although sometimes I can write post after post, most of the time I just read a lot of them. Hx

 

 

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