I have posted about one of my families before - I have looked after their H age 1 and E age 4 since September.
E had behaviour issues - with myself, school and I have subsequently found out with the nursery he attended before he started school in Sept.
With ground rules and consistency his behaviour has improved with me (it has been hard work and has involved lots of effort on my part), however mum is now the issue - she tells me she doesn't like me telling E to do things - one example of this, in the morning when it is time to leave for school I will say to all the children "it's time to go to school now, put your shoes and coats on please!" According to mum I shouldn't do this as I am not giving him a choice, "he has human rights and one of his rights is to always have a choice!"
She also tels me that giving him one warning when he is misbehaving is not enough, she would like me to give him 4!!!
Anyway, I had enough and gave notice, my official last day of caring for them both is this Friday however dad rang me on numerous occasions and has pleaded with me to extend the end date of care until the end of November, eventually I agreed and told them they must therefore pay me immediately for the extra care I will be providing. This agreement was made last Saturday and he said he would sort out payment immediately. I have not yet been paid.
If they don't pay me by Monday can I refuse to care for them?
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