What a day.... I mind brothers 2yrs & 3yrs twice a week and to be honest I do not want to wake up on these days anymore. Things are fine until LUNCH and then the tears start and they do not stop, normally I can get through it and coax them with good results in the end but today was a different story altogether.
Arrive, mum tells me 3yr old is tearful this morning! Mum leaves all is ok, take him to nursery and come home with 2yr old, have a lovely morning. Collect 3yr old and get home. Ask him what he would like for lunch, he decides chicken nuggets and chips (not a meal I cook usually but for a nice peaceful lunch I thought "Yeah why not"... he helped me prepare it and counted the nuggets for me. So far so good or so I thought.....
Put plates on table and sat boys down, 3yr old sobbing but wont say why, finally comforts him into eating he manages one chip and half a nugget, then 2 yr old starts crying he also wont tell me whats wrong.. cut a long story a bit short if one wasn't crying the other one was!!!!! 2yr old crying cos he wants juice (Why cry, just ask for juice), sort out him then back to 3yr old sobbing again, tops up he wants a wee (go to the toilet then, you know where it is) I go with him, he pee's over the side of toilet and wets all clothes now the tears a louder. I tell him not to cry and that accidents happen, I clean him up and change his clothes reassuring him all the time. Back to the table and he starts crying again, by this time I don't know if I am on my A*** or my Elbow, slowing loosing the plot but still soldier on. In the end after 40 mins of both taking it in turns to cry I ask if they want the food, they say no and once again it goes in the bin.
Within minutes 3 yr old crying cos he wants his dinner I explain its in the bin and offer a ham sandwich, he perks up and says Yes Please, again he helps me to prepare. As soon as I put it in front of him, he cries... then 2 yr old takes ham out and eats that but not the bread, he then cries cos he wants more ham... give him 3 more slices of ham (he eats it and the bread is in bin) 3yr old is crying and says its because his brother wont eat the bread. I asked if he wanted the bread, No... I give him more ham he eats one bite from 2 slices and it goes in the bin... (Used almost a whole packet of ham)
Is it me or am I allowed to go insane (silently)
Then to top it all, each time the 3yr old popped off he slightly messed his pants and was changed a total of 4 times including the wet pants...
We go to school, guess what?? He stands in the playground and for no obvious reason he begins to cry again.. at this point I turned to my friend (another childminder) and I started to cry having lost the plot completely, and then another mindee a lovely girl age 4 cried because I was crying. I did compose myself after a minute or so and comforted the 3 yr old again.
I did text the mum to say that I thought he maybe under the weather as he was crying all day and bless her... (She came and got the boys half and hour earlier)
So sorry for the rather long essay but I needed to get this off my chest, I would have a drink tonight but after the day I have had, I now have a migraine and I'm not sure drink is the best cure, will make up for it tomorrow night though ... Bless you all for being bothered to read this!
WHAT A DAY!!!
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