I have a mindee, 19 months, who is a real angel when she is here- never any trouble, always plays nicely, kind to the other children, eats well, goes off to sleep no fuss etc. But she is causing real trouble at home. I go to a toddler group that she goes to with Mum and she is a nightmare there too- tantrums, hitting, throwing things, screams for attention, headbanging etc. Apparently she can be alot worse at home too. She plays up as soon as Mum arrives to collect her- often heading straight for my son to hit him! I know most children tend to behave differently when way from their parents but not quite to this extreme.
It seems to be really bothering Mum that she is so good when shes with me but awful at home. Is there anything i can do to help? Mindee is almost the exact same age as my son so have explained how i deal with tantrums from him and what works for us i.e ignore it as long as he cannot hurt himself or someone else. I think Mum has been trying to reason with LO or distract her with snacks or milk which is obviously giving her the attention she is seeking and won't help.
Has anyone been in a similar situation?
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