hi everyone...
so far I've offered various park outings to my holiday mindee .. initially she says 'yeah I really want to go there great!' .. then she plays seemingly happily with the other mindees and then upon leaving when I ask if she had a good time she says 'no.. it was too easy that climbing equipment..' or 'it wasn't very good, it wasn't as it seemed from the road'...
now today my friend and I took 8 children to the park where they had a track marked out.. we took a tennis net, rackets and balls, egg and spoon, sack race sacks, tags, cones, balls, a parachut, rackets and bean bags... and everyone seemed to be happy .. and indeed they started wanting to play their own races so we let them....
at the end of the day I told the mum we'd gone to an art exhibition where we got the chance to make our own textile art (this was lovely) and then went to the park .. had a picnic and then did a mini sports day which everyone enjoyed.. WHEN.. the mindee said 'well actually mum I didn't think it was that good.. THERE WASN'T ENOUGH GAMES'..!!
I'm beginning to feel a bit miffed with her being soo unappreciative .. she is 8 years old.. is this an age thing.. last week I offered to take her to a soft play park (but she wanted to go to the more expensive one) .. and then veg and fruit picking .. but that was too boring...
what would you do with a mindee like this?.. last summer I don't remember her widging soo much.. but I took them to a lot more farms but then I equally didn't make soo much money.. this year with all our local parks now being refurbed with lovely equipment I don't feel there is such a need to do farm after farm and pay loads etc....
sorry sounds a bit rant like.. but what would you do .. ? Help would be lovely x
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