Please help me - 2 23mth old fighting all the time

**carebear25** · 07-10-2009, 03:51 PM

Please can you give me sum more tips Ive tried just bout everythin an non gettin so down bout it.

My own ds an mindee are both 23mths they are at each other near enough all the time more so when my back is turned.....

Wat eva I try doesnt seem to work

Weve tried praisin good behaviour
Gettin them to say No Pushing, Hiting, Smacking
Tried time out then apologies

but it just carries on, it has been like this since day 1 6mths ago.....

Mum is working with me on it but she doesnt see it as not here.

**Jellytotzjulia** · 07-10-2009, 03:59 PM

Hi

Are they actually being physical with each other or is it that one always wants what the other has? as if it is this & I know its not a great solution but a tried it & it worked for me with 2 mindees, just let them get on with it & sort themselves out

, , then get some books & things on sharing to all read together. As I said its not a great answer but it can work!!

Julia

**carebear25** · 07-10-2009, 04:05 PM

It starts off bein other a toy or book but then it gets physical ending in tears
they r both as bad as each other girl mindee is all hands an nips, pulls hair scratches. my ds can b a pain an is 4eva pushin