Hi Again
This post is inrelation to my last post.
Since the child has been on laxatives I have only had child in morning before school this is due to mum being called to come and clean her up and take her home from school as she has had an accident.
When mum dropped child off this morn she was v upset/angry with the school saying they have said they think it best the child takes a year off school until this phase has passed, mum not happy with this and does not want to take child out of school. (Even though child is having daily accidents.)
Anyway, Im still in a muddle, still havnt had chat with mum due to only having the child 30 mins in morning...
Do you think mum should of asked me whether I am able to deal with this? Since child has been put on laxatives she has not once asked me if this is ok with me?? The child has additional needs and this is not what the contract was originally signed for.
Also, how do I finally sit down with mum and advise her that if child is having daily/regular accidents then I will be unable to care for her??!
I feel so terrible, the little girl is so sweet and enjoys coming to my house but I really dont see how I can cope. I feel like mum feels like school is letting her down and then if I turn around and say the same I will feel truly terrible.
How would you start the conversation with mum?
The thing is mum has never actually sat down and told me what the full problem is, only that she is on laxatives and she is going to lose all control - And that was told to me in a hushed voice in the school yard!!
Ive only been childminding since June!
Thanks to anymore great advice anyone can give...
Hope im not repeating myself too much xxx
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