Re: Think she might fret for me ....
My oldest was a similar age when I was pregnant with my youngest daughter. I was admitted into hospital for a week in my pregnancy to be rehydrated which meant daddy had to take over the full time care of E. After initial upset that I was not there - she did quickly adjust to it, daddy continued to reassure her I would be home soon.
She can cope and will adjust. But you have to let her, sometimes anxieties in children are born out of anxieties in parents. So if you appear anxious about leaving her - because you think she will go into melt down, because you think she may not cope emotionally without you - the chances are thats the way she will be.
You deserve to be 'you' for a couple of days - and have a break from being mum - you are allowed to go and have fun and live like an adult - so embrace a few days freedom and enjoy it.
Personally I would mention it in passing well before you go, don't rise to any negative behaviour, be matter of fact about it. You are going but you will come back and if she is really good you will bring her a special present. But most of all don't give her any clue that you expect her to be anxious. You don't need her blessing to go out and have fun - you earnt the right when you became independant from your own parents
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