i care for a 15 month old full time.
Now he has been a nightmare since he was 6 months old as he was soooooo clingy/wingy and crying constantly anyway he has only JUST stopped winging for the past 2 weeks (actually since he has learnt to walk) He is an only child who gets carried constantly and every winge or murmur mum gives attention too!
Anyway now he comes to me in pull ups as she cant get him to lie down she (then they then leak as he does a poo every morning) she chases him around the house to get him dressed - ive just witnessed all this this afternoon and its just made me think no wonder he has been a nightmare with me, she lets him get away with everything and has never said no and called him back, she chases around him like a servant.
The main thing is when she collects him he will have a tantrum straight away throwing arms around, winging, screaming etc, so we cant even talk about our day! Now i know everyone does things differently but she makes it so hard for herself, i couldnt believe she was letting him manipulate her so much.
He can be so good when i have him he lies still for nappy changes, will sit still when changing his clothes etc. Just shows how bad a child can behave if someone lets him.
He had done a poo when she collected him he wouldnt lay down for her, so she said i suppose i better change you standing up!!! my god he fills hes nappys full! I did offer and he layed quite still for me, but as she was in the room he was still playing up!
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