I have had the stern chat already - I have explained that despite the fact that I have another child who stays later, that her erratic arrival times disrupt tea (during or after never before) I think this is part of it, she wants her child fed - I have offered to feed him regularly and move contracted times, she for whatever reason is not willing (although will accept his meal as long as she is not charged).
I have substantially increased late fees which work out at 4 x times the hourly rate, I have charged her for a missed cinema trip for my children in half term (she was an hour and a half late) we missed the film with pre-booked tickets and I had told her in the morning. On one occasion when I needed her to be on time she suggested I took the day off (I wouldn't be paid) as then she could take a leavers day because she couldn't guarantee she could leave on time?!
I'm not being unreasonable am I? I love her child as part of the family he has been here six years, and things haven't always been this bad in fact the opposite. But I have had enough of this. Oh for Xmas I got a tube of blue smarties as a gesture of her appreciation (with the buy one get one free sticker still on!)
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