ok, you can only give advice re: bottles - doesn't sound like she's going to listen though. BUT you can tell her it's not on to come in and make bottles and feed them at end of day - your day is long enough.
I'd invite her in for a cuppa one night and whilst she is feeding her LO a bottle, tell her you know he is tired at end of day - it is late for him - but LO needs to get home, you are sure she wants to get home and you are already finishing late and need to get your children sorted. Persuade her it would be better for her to get him home and ready for bed and then bottle before bed.
Maybe offer to get a bottle ready for her to take with her and feed to LO at home.
Then I would maybe in a few weeks tell her you "came across" some interesting articles which you copied for her - re: moving from bottles to cups of milk and effect on speech etc, etc.
good luck xx
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