I don't know if any of you remember my previous thread? I wrote about my very difficult mindee P and my dilemma over whther to struggle on and hope the situation improved or to terminate the contract. I got loads of good ideas from you all on here which I've been trying to implement but have today made the decision that enough's enough.
I've decided to give her mum 4 weeks notice tomorrow night, mainly because I am absolutely exhausted having to watch her every move. In the last few weeks she has hurt my little boy on numerous occasions ( he now has a discoloured front tooth as a result of a punch in the mouth which also left him with a split lip), and although I am very sympathetic to her mum's explanation of lots of upheaval at home, I just can't carry on.
P is my only full timer so I have been very dependant on her fees to cover most of my earnings but I live next to a school and have had loads of enquiries from parents whose children are starting there in September. I've decided to concentrate on only looking after school aged children rather than under 5's.
When I give the mum notice do I state P's bad behaviour as my reason for giving notice, or simply state that I am no longer offering full time care for under 5's. The other question is that P's mum is very young and her nan has a lot of input in the childcare decisions. Both mum and nan visited in the first place although only the mum signed the contract. Both mum and nan seem to share the picking up of P. If P's nan collects her tomorrow should I give the notice letter to her or do I wait until I next see P's mum?
Sorry its been such a rambling post but my mind is all over the place. I know I'm doing the right thing for the safety of my children and my own stress levels but am worried about the loss of money. Thanks x
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