Re: older child
Hi,
I sympathise. Firstly it is not your role to talk to her about her periods etc. I have looked after several older children including one who i think is about to start hers. I would be prepared to speak to her but only because i know her mother would also be doing it - but again i would not think its my responsibility. I have made older girls aware that i am happy for them to come to me and shown them where i keep sanitary towels etc. but thats as far as i normally go.
Although we go on about hormones in teenagers it is not an excuse for basic bad behaviour which is what this girl shows - its obvious she gets it from her mum judging by what you have said about her behaviour too. You need to lay the law down and tell the girl that you have other responsibilities and the younger children come first. Make her understand that if she shows patience then you will as soon as opportunity arises be prepared to give her some time one to one - perhaps she likes baking or would like to just sit down and talk to you. I have often given older children responsibilities which they tend to like e.g. helping prepare food, getting toys or equipment out, writing a menu plan for the next week or activities for holidays etc.
The real problem here i think is the mother. Hopefully you can manage to get some change in the girl but be prepared for no change from mum i am afraid.
I really hope that you get through to her - your stress levels must be high. Keep your chin up
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