Hi, you may have read my thread yesterday about poorly lo who took 3 hours to be collected after i had called mum to collect.( LO is back today and not as bad as yesterday) Well i am in such a state about continuing to care for the mindees. Brief background, mum got her first job last week after having 2 half year old and needed quick arrangements to be made. Had 2 meetings with kids and signed temp contract for this week. Had lots of probs getting simple things such as emergency contacts, this weeks hours etc from mum. Mum never contacted me when she said she would with details i needed and i had to chase her for everything. Mum text me at pickup time on Monday asking me to drop kids off as she was wet from the rain. (also have 6 year old before and after school) Am still not sure when having kids next week as she says not got shifts from work yet. Still cannot sign proper contract cause don't know what hours.LO started with me monday when she was poorly, chocca with cold and cough whice resulted in the nightmare yesterday. My own 8 mth old daughter is now poorly after catching cold and feel so down with it all. I don't know where i am with it all and my heart sinks every morning with the thought of the day ahead. It is really putting me off and if this week has been an indication of things to come I just can't put myself through it. I just don't trust the family to be reliable. Can't believe my minding career is starting like this. I want to tell mum i will honour temp contract for this week but no more. I feel harsh on the kids but surely its better now when they havent bonded with me than later on. I need to put me and my family first. Am i being harsh???
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