well now its 6pm on Friday.. and I'm ready to fall into bed.. I've not been able to leave the kids alone for 5 mins without a lot of rough play.. I don't even know what to focus on first... everything I ask seems to be ignored and I can't wholly take the mindee to one side all the time as sometimes my own 4yo is acting like a child possessed....
my 2yo for the second night running hasnt eaten dinner as the mindee hasnt so.. tonight he's going to be with no top up food before bed.. he's basically not eaten because the mindee didnt want his food.. my own 4yo did eat..
I hear what you are saying Helen.. and I think I'm going to try and focus on encouraging the benefits of following the house rules and the implications of not following (which are doing boring things with me??)).. even this could lead the child to then think I'm boring and focus on the others more don't you think?
possibly engaging him in things he likes and playing with him could dissipate the situation...
what do you think ?xx
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