Re: Made mindees mum cry...
Awww poor Mummy! I'd be upset, too if I didn't see the first steps. But at least Daddy got to see them.
Is she happy that she at least got to finally see him walk?
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Poor mum, I would be upset too!! Well done on baby for taking his first steps though
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Its best to never tell parents that they did their first steps whilst in your care, just tell them that he/she is trying really hard then feing surprise if they do it when parent collects.
I remember when my children first walked and it was always very emotional! :)
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I've had 3 doing their first steps with me and never mentioned anything....just said "oh they are soooo close" you never know they might later!:D
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awww poor mummy!
I'm just waiting for my mindee to take his first steps but wouldn't say a word about it when he did, and hope that his big sister wouldn't tell mummy either, let her find out herself :D
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I had one who took their first steps with me and didnt walk at home until 3 days later. I should have won an oscar for my surprised performance. The hardest thing was getting my own two not to tell mum.....:laughing:
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when my mindees start to walk i never tell them i always look surprised when they tell me :)
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Just to make it clear - I never told mum he'd done it! Dad gloated to her, and she said to me this morning 'Oh he just won't do it for me!'
I meant she was crying with happiness that he'd done it for her!! I think she felt a bit left out he'd done it for dad...!
She asked if he's done it for me, or if dad was first & I said it was first for dad - which it was.
I would never tell parents if baby did it first at mine, & I told dad he was mean for gloating & making mum feel bad!!!
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well I say :clapping: :clapping: :clapping: to mindee
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LOL ...
when i was nannying, i cared for a little girl who we were told wouldn't walk till she was 2ish ... at 16 mths she walked! ( it was a friday ) ... i didn't tell parents .... on monday i couldn't wait for them to tell me ... and they didn't :eek: ... the next morning she walked in front of all of us ... turned out, they wanted me to have the joy and surprise of her walking, just as much as i wanted them to! never found out when she actually did start to walk! :D
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