Almost three, Weak hands, in-toeing and walks like a drunk
Hi All,
I am after some advice from those with more experience than myself. I have a mindee who will be 3 in April. She joined me back in early October. I am due to get a copy of her three year review from her old childminder next week.
The concerns I have about her at the moment are all physical. parents tell me she learned to walk within the normal age bracket. But when she joined me I picked up on her strange walking style straight away. She was very unsure on her feet, fell all the time, bumped into things a lot, and was generally very unbalanced.
I have been working on physical things as much as possible, (she can be very reluctant!), I encourage dancing, soft play, jumping games and the like. She has improved slightly, however she seems unable to jump both feet off the ground, when she walks her toes point in, and she often trips herself up. When she takes off her socks her feet often look a little curled up! (she has never had her feet measured or new shoes since I have had her!!! they are too small!). When she walks, its like a tot who has only been walking a few months!, she is very wobbly/unbalanced, seems to have a little control over speed, but not great. She gets in the door over the step by holding on, but its very uncontrolled. My husband and I think she looks like a drunk!
I have also noticed over the last month since she potty trained that she has very week hands, she finds it hard to turn on/off taps. Her hands just have no grip, they seem very weak. She seems Ok when we do things like playdoh/sand she uses her hands well, but the tap turning thing concerns me.
My little boy is 7 months younger and 6 weeks premature, and his physical ability is better than hers, he jumps, turns taps, walks and runs normally. I am going to tap a little review on the end of her 2 year review when I get it, and bring these things to the parents attention. But how concerned should I be, I am sure this isn't normal?
Thanks for reading and any advice you may have.
Emma.