I have an 11 mth old baby who's been with me for several months now. I am finding that baby can do certain things but am sure they are lazy with certain things and parents agree. baby will sit and scream until they get their own way or attention. I've asked if parents jump at this (as they are 2nd child) and they say no. However, I'm finding them hard work because if they're not getting 100% attention or everything done for them they scream with anger and frustration. Baby has rolled front to back for a few months but now when they do it it's like a thud on the floor like they've been dropped from a height. If they roll onto their back they would lay there for as long as they were happy then scream to be picked up with no effort whatsoever to move. I encouraged them to roll back to front last week and when they were on the front, because they weren't in the position they wanted to be they screamed so I walked away. They have started crawling with lots of tantrums and screaming because of me trying to encourage them. They will also feed themselves and use a sippy cup, however, when it comes to a drink of milk from a bottle (even with handles) they make no effort to hold the bottle and scream until everything is done for them. I've had a younger baby start 3 weeks ago and the physical development is far more advanced. I know they all develop at different rates but first baby is extremely demanding and drives me crazy!
Any suggestions? I've seriously never come across a child with such anger, frustration and tantrums at 11 months old. I'm not concerned about the development as I've witnessed lots of things, I believe it really is pure laziness.