Tantrums with reins and straps!
Hi all, I'm after a little advice really- has anyone had experience of a 2 year old who seriously and continuously objects to wearing reins or a wrist strap?
I have a lovely 2yr old mindee who just cries and cries whenever I put them on him, and does the same over holding hands when walking- he wants to be independent, and can't accept that I insist on him keeping safe in this way! So when he invariably makes a fuss, I put him in the buggy, explaining why etc (same as I always explain why we need to hold hands or wear a strap), and then he cries and cries in the buggy, because he wants to walk! All very typical of a 2yo exerting themselves I know, but I've got to be honest, as well as it being upsetting for him, having an extremely upset child through town is not exactly good for business (if that's not too callous! He's a very happy chappy the rest of the time!)! So would you all continue to explain it to him, and let him walk with reins/holding hands but crying, or put him in the buggy still crying, or let him walk next to you without holding hands or reins/strap (he is actually quite safety conscious and stays put well, which is why his family don't use reins, especially as their only walks with him are nice winter walks in the woods etc where you don't need reins)?
I've tried plain vs snazzy bright wrist straps, and plain vs funky backpack-style reins, but as soon as he realises what they are he gets mega upset. This has been the situation since I've had him (started 5months ago), so he usually stays in the buggy, but I'd love him to walk more, as he enjoys it and it's better for my back!
I can't really decide if I'm being stubborn and bull-headed by insisting (he only actually walks when we have one on one time, so I can watch him properly, BUT there may be times when I have more kids and am watching them too), or if I'm being too soft by even considering the idea of letting a 2yr old win this "battle of wills"!
What do you guys think, and how have you dealt with this?
Many thanks xx