Help, want to say no but don't want it to sound terrible!
I have got a lot harder in this job ever since I started but I've been approached by an exsisting parent to work extra hours and I don't want to do it but don't feel I can say no, advice please ::panic:
I previously had mindee from a year old and her sibling before and after school, the younger child was not a problem but the sibling was terrible, I used to dread her coming she was so rude, bossy, naughty and didn't get on with my eldest son at all, but there was always a light at the end of the tunnel as the parent was always going to finish college which she did last May.
Then since sept mum bought the youngest one back for a few hours a week and told me she will be leaving in April to go to pre school which was fine. Last week mum told me she's been accepted back to college in April, she doesn't want the youngest going to nursery yet until sept so could I have her back 5 days a week. I don't work fridays or weds afternoons so am arranging (with mums approval) of another local cm to do those days.
The problem is she's asked me to have the older sibling back as well before and after school. I really don't want to but how do you say to a parent I'll take the youngest but I don't want the oldest one back!!! I've told mum that as from sept I wasn't going to care for school children and just stick to the under 5s ive had nothing but grief from the older ones and my children don't like the older ones being around.
I just have no idea how to put it to her that I can tKe the youngest but not the oldest. I already have after school children at the moment I don't know wether to use that excuse or not. My husband says I need to stop going over it and panicking and just say no. If only it was that easy!!