complaint from parents child shows willy
Hi I need help. I have a parent who complains every weekend. This weekend i'm not sure who i'm supposed to contact if anyone. I deal with the complaints every weekend in writing and arrange meetings on Sundays my only day off. I'm a childminder. This weekend she has sent a text complaining that her daughter has said that a little boy in the setting has shown her his willy. He is 3. She has said her daughter knows it has a hole and she states that this is never to happen again. I'm in the process of trying to explain normal childhood behavior and suddenly went into panic about safeguarding and should i report this to anyone eg ofsted / mash? I don't think I have to but i'm not sure. The whole thing is nuts? What do i do,:(:( I change nappies, she sees willies, i have to take her to the toilet sometimes with others as its unsafe to leave her, she has to be safeguarded again she will see willies of kids under 5. Totally demoralised by it all any cms in the Exeter area out there would love to meet and have a occasional rant or laugh over coffee!:(
Keep call to Ofsted up your sleeve until you hear what Pacey advise.
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*daisychain*
Something similar happened in my setting . I contacted my LADO , my insurance and OFSTED , wrote up a report of everything that happened and had been said and gave a copy to the parent involved and kept one on file for myself . I kept the parent updated of any further calls from ofsted etc.
It made sure I was covered. Nothing came of it in the end but was told it was the correct thing to do .
What does it say in your complaints policy ?
Some parents can blow things out if proportion so make sure you follow your policy to ensure you are covered .
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Hi - just be careful. Keep call to Ofsted up your sleeve until you hear what PACEY advise. Also, put everything in writing now and do a record of concerns re. Mum's complaint history just to cover yourself.
L