Giving Notice - Nervous, please help.
Hi all,
I have been looking after a now 8 year old after school for three years now. It has never been good and the childs behaviour has deteriorated at school. So much so that they don't know what to do with him anymore. He never does anything really bad but he is disruptive in class time and time again, children get hurt as he has to be the first at everything etc. The next step for him at school will be an exclusion centre. My son is the year below him at the same school so I would really like to keep my son away from somebody that acts like that.
He is not awful here but I cant walk out of the room for a moment and leave him there with other children and it shouldn't be like that. I often look after a 1, 2 and 3 year old so I have to keep a very close eye on him. I was going to terminate the contract as of September but thought I would give him his last chance but I have had enough. I have decided to give his mum a letter tomorrow.
Im really nervous. I have basically said in the letter that due to the childs unpredictable behaviour I would be unable to continue care into the new year. I have also stated that I need to free up some time to help my Mum and Dad (dad has just been diagnosed with cancer). I put that bit so that she cant really argue. I have to give 2 weeks notice and I am giving her more than that. I have also found and spoken too a few afterschool clubs etc., willing to take him on and am going to give Mum details.
Does this all sound ok? Any advice. Im dreading tomorrow, but thinking of starting 2014 without the child makes me feel amazing! Thanks for any advice x