TOILETING NIGHTMARE PLEASE HELP! /SUPPORT
HI EVERYONE, I potty/toilet trained my daughter in october i left it late as shes always had problems with constipation and she totally refused to come out of nappies too! which is why it was also delayed she starts school full time in april yes APRIL YIKES im running out of ideas some days shes fine and others she uses toilet half the day then just wets and poops in pants constant like up to 6 times a day and im drained by then! also now doing cminding she has played on this and rebelled due to me working so is doing it more!i have 3 other children to care for while al this is going on. and in april am meant to have 1&2 yr old starting!
I have asked the nursery & health visitor for help or a support line and they have been totally uceless and patronising! my daughter is happy i just want the toileting sorted 100% so she is sorted ready for scool and i can carry on working and be happy not have to worry about her wetting! as otherwise i will stop childminding all together as this is what the nursery & h.visitor suggested i b a bum and let my daughter win me bk to herself! which would really ****** me off as ive worked so hard to get this far!
any suggestions please save me as i feel like a crap mum at the mo and am really run down because of it! even though i try and carry on as normal for the sake of work & people seing me happy to be professional!