Child has soiled nappy at drop off
Not sure if I am being unreasonable. Please give me advice. Thanks.
Baby comes to me 4 days a week. She can be dropped anytime from 8am. Usually dropped between 8.05am and 8.20am. I go out on school run at 8.30am.
One morning or sometimes 2 mornings a week Mum hands me baby at my door with a soiled nappy. Usually she will say, oh she has a dirty nappy or think she has just done a dirty nappy.
I then welcome child by carrying her into my front room and she waves to Mum at the bottom of my drive. This can take about a few mins as Mum blows kisses etc. I have another 2 toddlers following me in and out of the room.
When I change baby's nappy is isn't soaking so she has obviously been changed from night time napp.y Probably soiled nappy just as leaving house or in car.
2 mornings I have had to leave another mindee and parent waiting for me to open front door for them as I have been busy changing the baby's nappy. I know the baby could poo after Mum has dropped. Obviously then I would change her. I just feel very much like the hired help when Mum is telling me to change the baby as she doesn't want to.
I want to ask/tell the Mum to change the baby's nappy before she hands me her at my front door. I find it incredibly rude that she hands me her with a soiled nappy. I used childcare for my children and would change baby in my car or offer to in the nursery before handing over if nappy was soiled. Am I being unreasonable? How do I address this with the Mum? Dh thinks I should say to her, oh come in then and you can change her in here? Any advice welcome. Thanks.