Originally Posted by
Nature'sKids!
Oh I wasn't judging, I didn't comment negatively and didn't see the mother anyway but i just never thought a kid *wouldn't* be able to do it iyswim? Yeah I totally hmget that there may be disabilities etc, on the whole this kid seemed normal though. I guess it just got me thinking about other situations I've been in where kids the same age as mine haven't been able to (or not been ALLOWED TO!!) do things.
The other day at playgroup for example ds was stood on a kids chair (really low one) and talking to the woman behind the kitchen counter in charge of drinks etc. He spent most of the second half there chatting, driving his cars about etc. 5 minutes before tidy up time another girl, about 6 months younger came up and wanted to stand next to him. Mother came along "NOOOO GET OFF DARLING YOU WILL FALL, YOU WILL HURT YIURSELF! ITS DANGEROUS!!"
yeah, way to build your kids confidence!!
Maybe find a way of repharsing this because my son would look normal and would struggle now at 10 to do some things as he is dyspraxic and unfortunetly he doesnt have a sign on his head. I get that you dont mean it to be offensive but how many times I have heard "he looks normal" and i tell them he is just struggles with his co ordination.
Ds and dd 4 and 3 respectively are climbers and the amount of times i get told should they be doing that - my reply is always well you try and stop them.
When someone tells you nothing is impossible, tell them to go slam a revolving door
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