We are at our wits end with our after schoolers ages 9, 8, 7, & 6 all boys. We don't always have them all as their parents are all shift workers and so we have them on varying days, but Oh boy when they are all here together it is h***
They don't want to do anything we plan, they won't do homework, they won't play board games infact anything we suggest is BORING! I have tried involving them in the planning, but they just get silly. We went through a phase where they bought their DS's but this led to arguments so I banned them. The 8 & 6 year olds are sibblings and not bad on their own, but when the other 2 are there thats when the trouble starts. The noise level is incredible because they are not capable of talking they always shout They are at their worst in the garden. We have given up on buying balls because they just kicked them over the fence. I tried parachute games, but you wouldn't believe the strop that caused
We can't even take them to the park as most days we now have more than 3 under 5's so both of us need to be here and they need their tea and pick ups start at 4.15.
If we could we would stop after schoolers, but financially thats not an option at the moment and there are no other childminders with vacancies that pick up from the school and no after school club. We are begining to feel they are having an adverse effect on our under 5's (and US ) which is not good.
Any suggestions??????????????
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