I have a little one whos started potty training. Parents asked me what was best for me and i explained that pull ups were best as i looked after crawling babies and cleaning up wee all the time wouldnt be hygenic or practical.
They provided me with pull ups but they use pants at home.
Now when hes with me even the mention of the potty and his eyes fill up and hes practically in tears. Iv noticed hes also stopped drinking whilst hes with me.
Dad says its because he still thinks the pull ups are nappies and that i should put him in pants at mine as "he always does it at home with pants". Mum said he never did one at all last week which tells me he couldnt have been in pants all the week like dad says, and that when he goes to grandmas house twice a week he doesnt do it there either. Iv told dad to keep reiterating that the pull ups are pants and that they pull up and down like pants, which he says they do.
Iv told them both that if hes here on his own im happy to put pants on him, but if i have other children i cant until i know he will tell me he needs to go, which at the moment he doesnt at all, even the day i did have him in pants he refused to drink the whole day, and cried when i sat him on the potty.
This is my first experience of potty training a minded child, iv only done it with my DD who had pull ups and was fine with them. I know all children are different and feel that i should have told parents to have got him trained at home first before me doing it jointy with them ?
Im just getting a bit tired of Dad telling me i should be putting him in pants all the time, when he doesnt realise i have a duty to the other children aswell (let alone the cost to have my chenille sofa cleaned, which goes funny if it gets wet ! JOKE )
Any advice please ?
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