I agree about the letter in fact I would sit said friend down and ask her what it is she wants out of the split re: families/children she would like to approach. Then see where you can compromise. Explain to her that you did not want the arrangement to end just that you were not keen on the premises she has chosen. That she went ahead without you shows this was not ever going to be a partnership.
Tell her you are glad that she is following her dream and wish her every success but that right now you both need to come across professionally to the parents (i.e. put forward a neutral and non-biased reason for the split) or it will damage both her reputation and yours.
Suggest the letter flora mentioned and I think it is brilliant idea to get you writing it together so you decide on how you construct the argument and reasons. Then really try to persuade her to meet with the parents together, talk them through it and then you can give them the letter to confirm the conversation.
Hope it goes well hon x
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