Hiya,
is it only my mindee's that kick off on collection time? I know children play up for the parents more than anyone else, as my ds is exactly the same!
But I wonder how you would handle this?
I have ds 19 months, mindee 19 months and mindee 2 years.
Mindee's are very well behaved with me, just takes a simple no once or twice to stop anything cheeky, but when the parents collect the 2 year old mindee goes running up to the others saying 'push push' and pushes them over, or goes and snatches their toys or hits my furniture with a wooden brick etc. - doing all the things he knows he musnt do.
The parents are quite soft on him, just say 'that wasnt nice' or ignore him banging on my sideboard etc. Mindee went up to the other one the other day and snatched his book, I decided to let dad handel it but he just said 'Are we supposed to be sharing' so I said 'Ah, poor ......... look at his face' and so the dad just stroked his head and said 'never mind, have this one' while his son carried on reading the book!
The dad has mentioned before, after mindee went round pushing over the others that he gets all excited etc. and seemed a bit concerned. I said he never does it in the day, its just a collection thing, and they all have their moments' but Im reluctant to say 'you should discipline him'!
I have before, when the parent was waiting for her car to be looked at, and I knew they would be here for 20 mins, told the child to stop turning my tv on and off, not to push and got a bit firm with him, then the mum stepped in and also said no firmly. Maybe I just need to step in and stop him before he runs up to the others, but sometimes he goes to cuddle them ...... I also dont want the parents to go home thinking that Im being too strict as they obviously are very laid back and seem to think its age appropriate.
I have tried sitting them down doing quiet books at collection times but the minute the doorbell goes they all get excited and start screaming and then the eldest starts the pushing etc.
Maybe I should sit them at the table doing an activity, but then the parents have a battle getting them down from the table!!
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