I go swimming every friday with my dd 3 1/2, ds 1, and mindee girl 5. til there no problem but i now have 2 boys 5 and 8.

i know they can dress and undress alone but wg=hat about the shower? do i just pass them the stuff under the door and hope for the best?

we normally go in a family changing room but surely the boys are too old to be with me?

what do you do???