Ladies (and Gents) I would very much appreciate your advice.
I met with a potential mind yesterday who has two kids blah de blah. Anyway we were talking as you do and found out we are into the same music and are infact going to see the same band in the summer, I happened to mention that my hubby is studying for a degree in music at the mo and he is in a band and had been told he looks like one of the musicians we are going to see (you know what men are like one woman says gosh you look like so and so and they come back and say that All women say they look like him ).
Anyway I ended up giving her my hubbies band website so she could have a look. We finished the meeting agreeing for her to bring the kids round to meet me this Friday.
A couple of hours later she phoned me back and said she had to ask me somerhing very sensative...Did I smoke? i said no i had given up two years and 2 stone a go but my hubby does smoke but not in the house ever and he is at college when the children are here.
She then lauched into a tirade of she is aware my hubby smokes because there is a picture on his bands website of him smoking a joint..i was gobsmacked and explained that actually they are roll up cigarettes not joints.
She told me that she did not believe me because no roll ups are that big I explained that yes they are when you use kingsized papers.She then said she would be concerned to have her children near someone who smokes drugs. I again calmly told her that I would be too but as I had pointed out they are roll up cigarettes my husband doesn't do and never has done drugs.
She then again said that she is concerened because she knows people in a band who all do drugs!! I then lost the plot AND WHEN COMPLETELY BONKERS telling her that she was beeing very presumptious and how dare she automatically jump to conclusions and then have the cheek to tell me I am lying
After about five mins of me ranting she then started to laugh and said oh Im so glad you reacted like that I'm sorry if I offended you will it still be ok to come round with her hubby and kids on Friday
I like a fool said ok. When I came off the phone I promptly burst into tears (I'm PMT at the moment even a James Blunt song makes me weep and that story on here about the Wooden Bowl...) I told my hubby what had happened and he went bananas telling me I should have told her no its not ok.
I have slept on it and I have to admit that I seem to be getting angrier the more I think about it and am concerned that she might be the type of person that jumps first and thinks later.
Am I over reacting
Tracy
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