Thanks guys appreciate the support feel on my own here today! two tired little ones here. Been for nap at 1030 instead of 12. Older one has done nothing but stand and stare at me or cry at the door will NOT go off and play! She is under the weather I think. At least I think that is it. I am pretty sure she did go off and play before cos she settled in fine before Christmas but it's hard to remember this week lol! I am a bit anxious about it because her older sister was beyond clingy and very very hard work, and I am concerned it will go the same way. If I sit and play with her she will play but otherwise won't even pick anything up, no interest. Can't play with her all day!!!