Dealing with "i cant"

[mumofone]

Does anyone have any good strategies or literature they could share for when children say "I can't" a lot? Thank you

[mama2three]

Children here know early on that we dont say I cant. We say I am trying to..........

[mumofone]

Children here know early on that we dont say I cant. We say I am trying to..........

Ah that's a good one, I'll teach my mindee to say that....

:-)

[moggy]

You change it to 'can't yet' and yes, they need to keep trying!

[Bumble Beez]

Children here know early on that we dont say I cant. We say I am trying to..........

We're the same

[kellib]

I have one that's forever saying 'I can't do it'

My rule is they have to try themselves once before they get any help, usually find they can do it and it's just laziness!