Please excuse the lengthy post but I need help. I have this little one who is just 2 and has been coming to me for 2 mornings a week for about 6 months.
If I leave him to his own devices he does nothing and I mean nothing- just stands there no speech no movement maybe watches the children around him. yesterday I took him to the park met other minders and lo he knows. All other children running around at park he stands there. nothing. Fairly sure if id let him be he wouldn't have moved at all. eventualy got him going up and down slide by leading him over and over again. this is typical of him.at home he will just stand in room and not move does not even touch toys left at his feet by others. I have started sitting him down and putting toy in his hands to try and get him to explore.
No speech at all, no response or gestures to questions at snack time he may hold it in his hand but does not eat it.
I have been building up to talking to parents and have told them my worries used words like concerned.On my trackers he is coming out very low. their response is well he talks at home, he eat at home, he plays at the park with us!!!!
Now is he extremely shy or is it me? what do I do? all ideas appreciated I just don't know what to do for the best.