I have been looking after a LO since he was a baby in arms. He is now 4 and quite a handful. Whilst he is with me I am fairly strict and there are consequences to his behaviour. Yesterday he was lashing out at the other children because he wanted to have a turn on the computer.

I removed him from the situation and told him the behaviour was totally unacceptable, no hitting others etc and after the second hitting incident, I told him he would not b allowed on computer for the rest of the day and I stuck to it.

When mum arrived to collect LO he began acting up and started kicking her REALLY hard!!! Mum did nothing....I think to be honest she's gets embarrassed with his unruly behaviour. After a few times of him repeatedly attacking mum in my hallway I grabbed him, put him on my stairs and told him that I would not have that behaviour in my house! His mum looked shocked!!!!

The thing is I think it will happen over and over again